You Haven't Lost Yourself...
You've Just Been Buried.
You've Just Been Buried.
Under everyone else's version of you.
Let's find her
You Haven't Lost Yourself...
You've just been buried.
Under everyone else's version of you.
Let's find her!
Direct | Honest | Soul-deep
Have you ever stopped long enough to ask...
what do I actually want?
what do I actually want?
Have you ever stopped long enough to ask...
what do I actually want?
what do I actually want?
At some point...
you had a clear sense of who you were and where you were going.
You knew what you wanted, what you stood for, and what mattered to you.
You built something real. A life, a career, a family, a version of yourself that worked. It felt solid. It made sense.
And then something shifted. A loss. A divorce. A moment when you looked up and did not recognize the life standing before you.
Or maybe nothing dramatic happened at all. Everything is technically fine. Life looks right from the outside. And something is still profoundly off.
At some point...
you had a clear sense of who you were and where you were going.
You knew what you wanted, what you stood for, and what mattered to you.
You built something real. A life, a career, a family, a version of yourself that worked. It felt solid. It made sense.
And then something shifted. A loss. A divorce. A moment when you looked up and did not recognize the life standing before you.
Or maybe nothing dramatic happened at all. Everything is technically fine. Life looks right from the outside. And something is still profoundly off.
Now, you’re here.
Not because you've lost yourself. But because you're ready for what comes next.
Not because you're broken. But because you're becoming someone new.
This is the moment to pause.
To question the beliefs you’ve carried.
To release the rules you’ve outgrown.
To reconnect with the truth that’s been
waiting for you all along.
Now, you’re here.
Not because you've lost yourself. But because you're ready for what comes next.
Not because you're broken. But because you're becoming someone new.
This is the moment to pause.
To question the beliefs you’ve carried.
To release the rules you’ve outgrown.
To reconnect with the truth that’s been waiting for you all along.
That voice inside that says, "I'm not there yet."
Good. It’s your intuition speaking - loud and clear.
It’s time to trust it.
Good. It’s your intuition speaking - loud and clear.
It’s time to trust it.
To reconnect with what you actually know. To stop overriding it.
And to start moving like the woman you already are.
That voice inside that says, "I'm not there yet."
Good. It’s your intuition speaking - loud and clear.
It’s time to trust it.
It’s time to trust it.
To reconnect with what you actually know. To stop overriding it.
And to start moving like the woman you already are.
Because surviving was
never the point.
This is.You're ready.
Because surviving was never the point.
This is.
You're ready.
This Is the Real Work.
And it starts by telling the truth.
This is not about fixing yourself or proving you are enough. It is about dropping the
performance you have been giving for years, and finding out who is underneath it.
What you call anxiety, burnout, or overthinking? That is what happens
when a woman has been overriding her own knowing for too long.
It is time to stop abandoning yourself.
And start moving like a woman who actually trusts herself.
This work is about:
Body Truth
Feel what’s real in your body before your mind tries to rewrite it.
Soul Alignment
Reconnect with your intuition and the deeper knowing that guides your path.
Radical Honesty
Find strength in the mFind your footing in the moments you usually go quiet. And act from there.
Find strength in the mFind your footing in the moments you usually go quiet. And act from there.
This Is the Real Work
And it starts by telling the truth
This is not about fixing yourself or proving you are enough. It is about dropping the performance you have been giving for years and finding out who is underneath it.
What you call anxiety, burnout, or overthinking? That is what happens when a woman has been overriding her own knowing for too long.
It is time to stop abandoning yourself. And start moving like a woman who actually trusts herself.
This work is about:
Body Truth
Feel what’s real in your body before your mind tries to rewrite it.
Soul Alignment
Reconnect with your intuition and the deeper knowing that guides your path.
Radical Honesty
Find your footing in the moments you usually go quiet. And act from there.
BOLD. GROUNDED. DEEPLY REAL.
Where New York grit
meets soul-deep intuition.
meets soul-deep intuition.
MEET BRENDA DI BARI
Hi, I'm Brenda
I help women shed the woman they built after loss, motherhood, and years of becoming who everyone else needed them to be. If you have been performing, pleasing, and privately wondering when it gets to be your turn, you are in the right place.
I use somatic breathwork, Core Energy coaching, and intuitive guidance. Because the answers you are looking for are not in your head. They are in your body. They always have been.
My work creates a deep, lasting shift in how you show up for yourself and your life. Not surface level. Not temporary. We go to the root. The beliefs, the patterns, the conditioning that have been quietly running the show. And we dismantle them together
I will not sugarcoat the truth. I will guide you clearly, challenge you directly, and support you completely as you step into who you actually are.
ICF Professional Certified Coach | NBC-HWC Board Certified
I know what it costs to silence yourself for years. I know what it is like to love someone so completely that you slowly disappear into that love and then have to find your way back to yourself alone. I know what it feels like to be buried under circumstances that had no business being survived and to come out the other side still standing, still choosing, still certain that there was a reason for all of it.
That is not a coaching philosophy. That is my life. And it is why I trust this work completely.
BOLD. GROUNDED. DEEPLY REAL.
Where New York grit
meets soul-deep intuition.
meets soul-deep intuition.
MEET BRENDA DI BARI
Hi, I'm Brenda
I help women shed the woman they built after loss, motherhood, and years of becoming who everyone else needed them to be. If you have been performing, pleasing, and privately wondering when it gets to be your turn, you are in the right place.
I use somatic breathwork, Core Energy coaching, and intuitive guidance. Because the answers you are looking for are not in your head. They are in your body. They always have been.
My work creates a deep, lasting shift in how you show up for yourself and your life. Not surface level. Not temporary. We go to the root. The beliefs, the patterns, the conditioning that have been quietly running the show. And we dismantle them together.
I will not sugarcoat the truth. I will guide you clearly, challenge you directly, and support you completely as you step into who you actually are.
ICF Professional Certified Coach |
NBC-HWC Board Certified
I know what it costs to silence yourself for years. I know what it is like to love someone so completely that you slowly disappear into that love and then have to find your way back to yourself alone. I know what it feels like to be buried under circumstances that had no business being survived and to come out the other side still standing, still choosing, still certain that there was a reason for all of it.
That is not a coaching philosophy. That is my life. And it is why I trust this work completely.
This Is What Changes.
When you stop performing and start living from what is actually true, everything shifts. Not in theory. In your body, your relationships, your choices, and the way you move through the world.
In this work you will:
Release What Your Body Has Been Holding
The patterns, the grief, the conditioning. It lives in your body, not your mind. This is where it actually moves..
Find Ground When Everything Feels Unstable
Not toxic positivity. Not pushing through. Real, steady footing that holds even when life does not cooperate.
Trust What You Already Know
Your intuition has been speaking the whole time. This work turns the volume up and teaches you to act on it.
Live As the Woman You Are Becoming
Not someday. Not when things settle. Now. Fully expressed, deeply rooted, and done making yourself smaller.
This Is What Changes.
When you stop performing and start living from what is actually true, everything shifts. Not in theory. In your body, your relationships, your choices, and the way you move through the world.
In this work you will:
Release What Your Body Has Been Holding
The patterns, the grief, the conditioning. It lives in your body, not your mind. This is where it actually moves.
Find Ground When
Everything Feels Unstable
Not toxic positivity. Not pushing through. Real, steady footing that holds even when life does not cooperate.
Trust What You Already Know
Your intuition has been speaking the whole time. This work turns the volume up and teaches you to act on it.
Live As the Woman
You Are Becoming
Not someday. Not when things settle. Now. Fully expressed, deeply rooted, and done making yourself smaller.
Client Stories
In traditional counseling, I never made as much progress as I did with Brenda in just a couple of sessions. I've learned that cognitive behavioral therapy can only get you so far - but you need goal-driven practice to make real progress. So grateful I worked through my birth trauma and learned counterpractices to work through my triggers. She was exceptional.
Coaching Client
Brenda has been so wonderful in helping coach me through a very difficult time in my life. I will forever be grateful.
Coaching Client
Supportive. Kept me on task when I would just vent. She was awesome.
Coaching Client
In traditional counseling, I never made as much progress as I did with Brenda in just a couple of sessions. I've learned that cognitive behavioral therapy can only get you so far - but you need goal-driven practice to make real progress. So grateful I worked through my birth trauma and learned counterpractices to work through my triggers. She was exceptional.
Coaching Client
Brenda has been so wonderful in helping coach me through a very difficult time in my life. I will forever be grateful.
Coaching Client
Supportive. Kept me on task when I would just vent. She was awesome.
Coaching Client
Client Stories
POWERFUL GUIDED SOMATIC RESET & INTUITION ACTIVATION
Your Intuition Is Not Gone.
It has just been buried under years of noise, doubt, and override. The Intuition Activation Program gives you the space to hear it again and the tools to actually trust it. Three self-paced guided videos to stop second-guessing, release what has been holding you back, and start moving from what you know instead of what you fear.
POWERFUL GUIDED SOMATIC RESET
& INTUITION ACTIVATION
& INTUITION ACTIVATION
Your Intuition
Is Not Gone.
It has just been buried under years of noise, doubt, and override. The Intuition Activation Program gives you the space to hear it again and the tools to actually trust it. Three self-paced guided videos to stop second-guessing, release what has been holding you back, and start moving from what you know instead of what you fear.
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