Updates from Brenda Di Bari

Fear has a tempo. Intuition has a frequency.

Fear has a tempo. Intuition has a frequency.

Brenda Di Bari
Most women cannot tell the difference between fear and intuition.This is not a failure of awareness. It is a function of the fact that no one taught you. The two get talked about as if they are opposites. They are not. They are different signals that
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You are allowed to know what you know

You are allowed to know what you know

Brenda Di Bari
You know.You have known for a while.You knew when the meeting ended and your stomach was tight on the train home. You knew when she said the thing and you laughed but something inside you went quiet. You knew when you read the message and put your ph
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The 3 a.m. wake-up isn't anxiety

The 3 a.m. wake-up isn't anxiety

Brenda Di Bari
You wake up at 3 a.m.Your eyes open before your mind does. The house is quiet. Nothing is wrong.Except you are awake, and your body knows something your day did not have room for.The clock says 3:14. You lie there. You try to talk yourself back down.
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Meet Brenda Di Bari

I am a coach, writer, and keynote speaker in New York City. I work with women on the gap between knowing something is off and actually moving it.

My clients are capable women who know something has to change, whether or not they can put words to it yet. We work through the mind, body, and soul together, with Core Energy Coaching, SOMA breathwork, and conversation that does not skirt the thing.

I write here every couple of weeks. I am also the author of the memoir Nothing Can Be Darker Than Midnight.

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